On the Cusp of a New Year

Well folks, it's been quite some time since I've written a blog post that doesn't have to do with a child's development or birthday. Over the past month or so I've been mulling over an idea, taking myself off of social media. Sometimes it seems scary and overwhelming and other times it feels like it might be a relief! I think I've discovered that what I appreciate most about social media is the remembering -- seeing pictures of my kids and family and remembering what has happened in years past; a digital diary of sorts. For this reason, I've continued to use Facebook and Instagram and have been hesitant to eliminate them. I also realize that many people do, in fact, care about seeing the kids grow up and are interested in knowing what we are up to. On the other hand, with my continued use there has been {self-imposed} drama and increased anxiety. I've taken a few week and month long breaks, and I've found increased productivity in other areas of my life -- staying caught up with laundry, reading more books than I have previously, etc. Which, of course, are wonderful by-products. So I found myself with a conundrum of sorts, how to find a balance between the pros and cons.

Our Family on Christmas Eve 2019 

Then, it hit me, my blog! A way to stay more private and avoid so much comparison {worrying about the number of likes and comments each post receives} and yet, the people who want to stay connected with me will be able to. Winning, yes?! Plus, writing does in fact help me process my thoughts and may help me achieve some of the goals I have created for this new year. I have not decided how often I'll be able to write and post, it may ebb and flow as time allows. But if you wish to follow along this year as I embrace a change and try something new for myself and my family, please do. I love the connection that technology allows us to have, even when living miles apart. Wishing you all a Happy New Year!