Figuring out this thing called life... one recipe, one child, one day at a time.
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Tuesday, April 19, 2016
Zeke's First Soccer Practice
I have been awaiting this day for nearly 5 years! Yes, you read that correctly. As soon as I knew I was having a child, I couldn't wait until they got started in team sports. Sure, I've enjoyed the baby and toddler years -- precious and cute as they are. But this, this is when I get to find out who my child really is! See, it's not so much about the participation in team sports as it is -- "Who is Ezekiel? What will he love to do? What will he be good at? What will he be passionate about?" Have you read that post asking if you're ok with your child being just "average"? Or something along those lines. I have. And I am. I don't really care if any of my children is the MVP for their team. Or the valedictorian. Or gets into school on a music scholarship.
What do I care about? That my kids (with my help and support) can find out what they love to do and go after it with all their hearts! I truly believe that God has given everyone special talents and gifts. Everyone is great at something. Sometimes it can be hard to discover what those things are, especially if a parent has an idea of what they want for their child's life... 'I love playing the piano so my children must love it and do it and excel at it and I won't stop for anything.'
I played sports in high school and it was fun, but I didn't have the drive. I was never on the 'A' team, but I sure had a lot more fun actually getting to play on the 'B' team. I honestly didn't care about winning, and I'm sure that was part of the reason I wasn't always picked. But it was enjoyable for me, just to play. Playing the piano, on the other hand? I could sit and play for hours. It wasn't work or practice for me. It was me. It is me. It's what I love. It's one of the only things in my life that I can do and not think about eating. Oh you know those people that look up at the clock and say, "Oh boy! I forgot to eat lunch!" Nope, that's ridiculous in my book. I ALWAYS remember and make time to eat. But occasionally if I'm playing the piano, I can delay my meal for a bit :)
But back to this next phase of parenting -- as much as I love the snuggles I've been getting from Zoë, how much she and Levi both need and WANT me, I am feeling the independence from Zeke and it's exciting and nerve-wracking at the same time. How will he succeed this year? Will he be a natural at soccer? I'm not sure. At the first practice they started off with a jog around the field. Later on in practice they were taking turns kicking the ball and I had just walked up to hear Zeke asking his coach to do something. She couldn't understand what he was saying, so I had him come over to tell me. It took a few times for me to understand, but he was asking to "jog" more! So already I know a little more about something he enjoys! I cannot wait to find out more!
What do I care about? That my kids (with my help and support) can find out what they love to do and go after it with all their hearts! I truly believe that God has given everyone special talents and gifts. Everyone is great at something. Sometimes it can be hard to discover what those things are, especially if a parent has an idea of what they want for their child's life... 'I love playing the piano so my children must love it and do it and excel at it and I won't stop for anything.'
I played sports in high school and it was fun, but I didn't have the drive. I was never on the 'A' team, but I sure had a lot more fun actually getting to play on the 'B' team. I honestly didn't care about winning, and I'm sure that was part of the reason I wasn't always picked. But it was enjoyable for me, just to play. Playing the piano, on the other hand? I could sit and play for hours. It wasn't work or practice for me. It was me. It is me. It's what I love. It's one of the only things in my life that I can do and not think about eating. Oh you know those people that look up at the clock and say, "Oh boy! I forgot to eat lunch!" Nope, that's ridiculous in my book. I ALWAYS remember and make time to eat. But occasionally if I'm playing the piano, I can delay my meal for a bit :)
But back to this next phase of parenting -- as much as I love the snuggles I've been getting from Zoë, how much she and Levi both need and WANT me, I am feeling the independence from Zeke and it's exciting and nerve-wracking at the same time. How will he succeed this year? Will he be a natural at soccer? I'm not sure. At the first practice they started off with a jog around the field. Later on in practice they were taking turns kicking the ball and I had just walked up to hear Zeke asking his coach to do something. She couldn't understand what he was saying, so I had him come over to tell me. It took a few times for me to understand, but he was asking to "jog" more! So already I know a little more about something he enjoys! I cannot wait to find out more!
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| As I asked Zeke to come take a picture, Levi edged his way in :) |
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| They aren't apart much |
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| Apparently he was still not feeling the greatest before his first practice. |
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| Rainy and chilly first day out |
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| But he was a trooper and went out there and did it anyway! |
Zeke, I'm proud of you for taking on your first practice even when you didn't feel well and you were shivering and would have been more comfortable at home. Tonight you have your second practice (we skipped last Thursday because you were still sick and went to the doctor) and Daddy gets to come too! I pray that Daddy and I will be able to encourage and support you as you share your heart's desires and discover more about yourself. You are such a wonderful kid and I hope you know we love you for you, not any performance or accomplishment, just being Ezekiel Dekker.
Friday, April 8, 2016
Zoë's Quilt
Zoë got her baby quilt from great-grandma Stenerson this week! And we love it! It's covered in cute, vintage animals! I'm sure it will be much loved!
Saturday, April 2, 2016
8 Months Old!
Zoë, today you are 8 months old! This month has brought a lot of change for our family! And sickness too. Here's what you've been up to:
-- You celebrated your first Easter. It wasn't too exciting, because you were sick. But you did look cute and wore one of my dresses! Mimi gave you a new, soft bunny, an egg toy, a light-up chick, sunglasses, a bright pink sun hat, and your very first swimsuit! I can't wait to see you wear it!
-- You got your first bout of sickness. A lung infection. How terrible!
-- You've completed your first move. Welcome to the family. There are lots of them ;)
-- You like to rub Daddy's beard and give him kisses. He can ask you for them and you'll lean in with a big smile, and many times, tongue out!
-- You are starting to get up on your knees some, especially when I set you down on your tummy, you'll tuck your knees up under you and stay that way for awhile. You are getting around the house via rolling and scooting.
-- You continue to twirl your ankles, especially when you have socks on. Constant circles. It's really cute!
Zoë Kayte, you are such a lovely addition to our family! You have become more interactive and I can see your personality coming through a little more. I love listening to you babble! Such a sweet sound. You are laughing more, weigh 13 lbs., and are almost 26 inches long! We love you so very much, Zoë! Happy 8 months! Love, Mommy
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| Easter Sunday -- just relaxing, and kicking Mommy in the face |
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| Easter Sunday nap |
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| Happy to be in your jumperoo! |
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| But no one was feeling very good. |
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| You had a good time getting to know Mimi |
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| Snuggles and Kisses |
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| We are excited for spring weather! |
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| St. Patrick's Day 2016 |
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| We got out the jumperoo this month, you are loving it! |
-- You've begun to say "da-da".
-- You continue to twirl your ankles, especially when you have socks on. Constant circles. It's really cute!
Zoë Kayte, you are such a lovely addition to our family! You have become more interactive and I can see your personality coming through a little more. I love listening to you babble! Such a sweet sound. You are laughing more, weigh 13 lbs., and are almost 26 inches long! We love you so very much, Zoë! Happy 8 months! Love, Mommy
Friday, April 1, 2016
Friday Fotos
It's been a long, taxing 2 weeks. Here are just a couple pictures from Easter. No one felt great, so the pictures aren't great. But we press on...
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